Get Down

All the time, on my mind, everywhere I go, I’m tryna let you know, stronger then any drug even love…Can drive you crazy, can make a baby, all night long it’s the perfect song…

- Three Letter Word by Jamie Foxx

Let me begin by prefacing this post, tightly holding onto the reigns of celibacy I probably have a skewed vision of what sex is to the outside world, but here we go.

Is it that serious? Stronger then any drug, even love? Besides the need for sex to reproduce and continue our species, I think sex is important to a relationship (preferably in the confines of marriage). And I am not one of those persons who think sex should only happen when trying to reproduce, archaic and old fashion as that may sound some people feel that way. Sex has become more like a greeting, then the meeting of two minds showing affection with one’s body.

Perhaps if you read this blog, you get the indication that I’m old fashioned. You’re right. I won’t naively sit up here and say sex won’t happen outside of marriage, heck I’ve done it myself, but its becoming like a contact sport. I can understand someone’s desire to do it, heck even a need, but under some sort of restraint. Some will as soon shake your hand as get down with you.

We’ve taken the romance, sincerity, sanctity, and all that good stuff out of sex. I don’t mean to preach, I just think that laying down with someone should be sacred. If you need a quick fix, do some jumping jacks or take a cold shower. I’m not saying don’t get down…just use some discretion when getting down.

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One Response to “Get Down”

Ebony said on March 27th, 2008 at 1:58 pm

I giggled at “Some will as soon shake your hand as get down with you.” Maybe it’s funny because it’s true…idk? It’s also kind of sad, too.

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